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People met in the wild

The Pair Club hosts in-person events in Richmond for singles 25–45. We believe in slow-burn kind of love, friends-first connection, and community over dating apps.

Skip the swiping and come feel the vibe IRL. Your perfect meet-cute is just around the corner. Forget the pressure of speed dating or hookup culture of the bar scene.


Our events are less about finding “the one” and all about finding your people.

Ready?
Check out our upcoming events and grab your tickets before they sell out!

The anti dating app Club

Modern dating is a mess!

Apps. Ghosting. Endless swiping. We’re lonelier than ever in a world full of “options.” Social media and dating apps have turned connection into a game, leaving us discouraged, frozen, and craving something real.

Dating shouldn’t feel like a job interview. You deserve to meet people without pressure, small talk fatigue, or worrying if someone is who they say they are.

Vibes don’t lie. Meet people IRL!

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Get paired

Contact us for our matchmaking! Or any other requests <3